April: A time for love… and orgasms!

Written by CUIndependent in Opinion on Apr 18, 2011 5:00 / comments

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Orgasms. Don’t we all wish we were so lucky to enjoy them on a regular basis?

It is medically proven that having an orgasm at least twice a week for both men and women is good for our health, from helping to get rid of insomnia all the way to decreasing the likelihood of cancer. So, why not make sure you have more?

If you are having trouble reaching the Big O during any type of intercourse, it may be slightly awkward to bring up with your partner. If you want to get everything you can out of sex, you will have to stand up for yourself and your libido.

When it comes down to it, having an orgasm isn’t just up to your partner. You also have to commit yourself to reaching that peak of pleasure.

Forgetting everything around you and focusing on what is going on between you and your partner is the first step. It may seem easy, but everyday stresses can make it hard to clear the mind. Take a few deep breaths and let yourself enjoy what’s going on. Remember, it’s okay to let go.

Now, this may seem a like advice from a porn star, but the more noise the better. Getting to that peak will be easier if you give in to how good it feels. Everyone has a little freak in them, so let it all out. You will be surprised how much better it feels. Not only does noise enhance an orgasm, it can help relieve stress.

Maybe you have tried everything in your power to make an orgasm work for you but you still aren’t reaching the explosion. If this is the case, talking to your partner may be the next step.

In most cases, this conversation can be awkward. But, if you have the conversation while getting it on, it can become more of a game instead of a critical talk. Shake things up a bit and try things you haven’t done with your partner. If something feels good, don’t be afraid let your partner know. They want you to feel good too.

Whether it’s alone or with someone else, everyone deserves to have the orgasm they have always imagined on a regular basis. Be sure you tap into your inner desires in order to reach it.

Contact CU Independent Staff Writer Hannah Flink at [email protected].

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